For me, the most difficult part about the Mandela Effect is when people changed. That may sound crazy but not when you consider what’s happening. Actually, it’s not those around us who have changed, but we have changed.

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Those of us experiencing the Quantum Effect have been transferred to Alternate Realities. Therefore, the people that we encounter in these other realities, be it family, friends, spouses, relatives, business associates, etc., are not necessarily the same people that we knew on our original Timelines. If they have the same personality, we don’t notice any difference. However, if their personality is drastically different from the version that we knew on your original Timeline, this could and often does present major problems, especially if the changes are negative. (Many times, their memories of some past events are different from their alternate versions.)

I have personally had to deal with this happening to me on numerous occasions. There are 10 people in my life who changed dramatically from the people I once knew. Three of them changed for the better, seven changed for the worse.

Two of them changed back to the personalities of the persons that I once knew. One of them changed back after three years, the other changed back after two years.

One person, a woman, looked 10 years younger than the version of her that I knew on my original Worldline. I hardly recognized her when we ran into each other in a supermarket. Her personality had changed for the better. The woman I knew previously had been very bitter, but this alternate version of her had no bitterness. When I got home, I pulled up a photo of her that had been taken three years earlier. The woman in the photograph looked at least 10 years older. I was surprised that the photo hadn’t changed. It would be classified as Residue.

A man that I know changed overnight in October 2018, so negatively that after several months, I broke off our friendship. Then two years later, when I needed to contact him about a matter, he had changed back to his friendly self.

These changes aren’t mood swings, personality disorders, or related to drugs. When a person looks the same, but their entire personality changes and their memories change, it becomes quite noticeable to one experiencing the Mandela Effect.

I had a close female friend who experienced shifts in her reality due to the M.E. We discussed the quantum phenomenon often at great length. She had concerns that one day she and I would shift to different Worldlines. We knew a lot about each other. She assured me that we would always be friends, no matter what. Periodically, she asked me via email if it was still me.

Then one day it happened. One of us shifted, and I encountered another version of her. Her personality, background, and history with her parents changed entirely. Her attitude changed to the negative. When I asked her about it, she refused to answer and our friendship ended. 

Someone I dealt with in business who had a great personality changed completely. He was noted for a slogan that he used often. In business, his prices were extremely affordable, and his company had excellent reviews, which is why I employed him periodically for some work that I needed done.

I hadn’t spoken to him in about two years. When I needed to hire him again for some work, I noticed he no longer used the slogan. His prices had nearly doubled from what they had been previously. He ran his business entirely different through a middle person. When I looked up Reviews for his business, they were all very negative. I realized that he wasn’t the same guy that I had known. He had changed due to the M.E.

I had similar situations happen with some loved ones. I won’t go into much detail, except to say their alternate versions were not the same at all. They changed overnight from loving me to not even liking me. Their attitude and some of their memories were entirely different from their alternate selves. This had a disastrous impact on my relationships with those people due to their indifference towards me.   

When I first discovered the M.E., I joined some online groups on social media. There I met others who encountered very similar situations with their loved ones due to shifting Realities. One woman had a son that loved and adored her. They were very close. When she shifted, he changed to a very disrespectful, negative person overnight. He avoided her, and eventually estranged himself to the point of cutting off all ties and moving away. I know exactly how she felt, because the exact same thing happened to me. 

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The most difficult part about losing a loved one due to the M.E. is that you can't discuss it with anyone in real time, because they don't believe it. You don't get to have a funeral or memorial service, you don't get to mourn the loss of them openly, even though it's as devastating as if they had died. So you have to pretend as if nothing happened to your loved one while a person who looks exactly like them roams this earth while having nothing to do with you. It's a Secret Life that we live, those of us who are Mandela Effected, and many times it's very torturous.

I often wonder where my loved ones are that I lost when I first shifted. Are they on a another Worldline, and if so, what is my alternate self like? Are they encountering a negative version of me? What was the alternate me like who occupied this body before I got here? I don’t know. If my loved ones are on a Parallel Timeline, are they aware of it? When I consider that my original Worldline might have been destroyed, I wonder if they are even alive. I wish I knew. I won’t know the answers until I get to Heaven. I dearly miss those who were lost to me.